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PostPosted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 8:38 pm    Post subject: stay true to yourself Reply with quote

Stay true to your Self.
Stay true to your intent. Stay true to your love and your soul.

Who you truly are cannot be denied, for it is a denial of yourself.
Be true to yourself. Show who you are. Shine your Light upon us.

Don't be afraid of what others might think.
Don't deny yourself because of fear for other's opinion.

If everybody would do that, nobody would truly live.

Be yourself, that is who you are. Your essence.

Don't fear those who ridicule, for they don't know who they are.

Be true to yourself, be true to your spirit.

What a waste, if you came to earth, just to hide. Shine your beautiful light, shine your beautiful self.

Stop denying your true nature. Stay strong for who you are.

Stop hiding behind walls.

stop hiding NOW.

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 8:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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You said everything that needed to be said. I agree with you 100%! ^^

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 9:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's very hard to do that, but I agree with you... I've actually been thinking about this for a while, and decided that I'm going to try to start with a blank slate when I move and be more open.

It occurred to me that barely anyone knows the true Wolf apart from a few people, and that's because I've always been taught to hide. Recently I've been trying to do as you posted, but people here (where I live, not the forum) are so used to the norm that they don't want to stand for it.

Then, yesterday, I had a revelation. Bruno can back me up for this, for he's the first person to hear about my new thoughts. No more unneeded lies, no more hiding, no more having to deal with extra burdens.

It's time to start anew. ^^

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 10:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

So is it true?How can you know yourself?
You only find yourself when you lose him
,and then the end will smile to you and tell you tha it loves you.

What hiding?It ain't hiding anymore,it's our way of living.It might not be funny ,it might be disastrous but that's the way some people feel.
And so when yourself betrays you,when you know but you cannot believe?The truth ain't Theirs ,it's yours and only
make it,destroy it if you want,recreate it,lie on her.It's YOURS and only...

And so i might ask,what is life?
I haven't seen her ,or i have but it was just like a flash ,a shine(some believe it) inside the space that surround us.

When you spirit and mind come to us all and stop hiding behind your body,that's when i'm going to live the life you speak.
My world ,is sometimes cruel,doesn't protect me from anyone inside my mind,but it's mine just like an LD.
It's so little the time you live but it's so better the things you see.!!!!
(Not as a flame,but as a dare from a young-person to you Q)
I just hope it's not offending.

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 10:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

it's not offending at all DD, i only have a bit trouble to understand what exactly you want to say.

whenever you don't speak your truth, you are hiding
whenever you don't show yourself, you are hiding
whenever you take over someones opinion, because you are afraid to state your own, you are hiding.

whenever you fear what other's might think of you, you are hiding
whenever you deny who you are, you are hiding.

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 10:20 pm    Post subject: Re: stay true to yourself Reply with quote

I agree with most of it smile... This line though, it bugs me:
pasQuale wrote:
Don't fear those who ridicule, for they don't know who they are.

Could they not ridicule AND know themselves at the same time ? If you know what you want to do in your life, like to laugh a lot, is ridicule then not an aid in your quest ?

I myself know myself pretty well and I also ridicule people, in a good way of course. I never say things like 'omg, your hair sucks !' or 'omg, look at those SHOES !'. That's not my kind of ridicule, those are just shallow insults which might hurt the person you are ridiculing. I ridicule so that I can laugh, the other person can laugh and people that stand around can laugh. Nobody gets hurt smile

I don't like to get hurt, therefor I don't like to hurt people smile


And that was me staying true to myself wink5

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 10:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Harold Whitman wrote:
Do not ask yourself what the world needs; ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 10:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

^^

the line ridicule means, that sometimes you can not say something, because you fear someone will make fun of you, of what you said.

it doesn't mean ridicule in the way you described ^^

I know it's a big fear of mine, and i'm finally getting over it. Still from my childhood, where i would be made fun of over pretty much anything i would wear, say, or do.

edit: that's a cool quote draginvry. I like that smile

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 10:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'll just not try to make it look like some kind of a poem and i'll just try to answer your post the way i see it kiekeboe .
What do you mean by the word truth?Everyone has it's one truth.F.e:Jesus Christ (from some the so called Messiah) was a terrorist to the Romans but a savior to his people(what it is said to have happened is irrelevant tounge2).It's what YOU(each of us) take for granted.

How can you know if they could stand my real self?And which one of them (selves)?Also , I ain't hiding I just show my real self to the ones that want to know me better than what i look from the outside.

All the words we know have been said,the only different thing you do is put the words with another order.(I usually have my own opinion,just playing Devil's Advocate tounge2 )

You are what you act,(my opinion),if you deny yourself you deny all the acts you've made bad or good.

Nice conv,

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 11:12 pm    Post subject: Re: stay true to yourself Reply with quote

panaQuiwi wrote:
Be yourself, that is who you are. Your essence.

Don't fear those who ridicule, for they don't know who they are.


yes

That is very true. In fact, the whole poem is. Sometimes we realize that we are much happier when we show ourselves to the world instead of hiding - that is a lession that I have learned for myself on different occaisions.

That poem also makes me cosider revealing my *secret!* nervous

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 15, 2006 6:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hmm..I think the original poem is a little presumptuous and intended for those who are overly passive and/or “living a lie”(call it what you will). I say this because the passage orders you to stop being timid and let it all hang out. It reads like some kind of hyperactive new-age church sermon that assumes that you are indeed, a spineless cowering fool who is being led around by (the you know what) by society. I don’t hide behind any walls and I tell people exactly what I think to a reasonable degree. I like not being a boring open book, that is who I really am. If everyone did exactly as this suggests then it might look like this:

EUTOPIA [Scene 1, Bob and Pete are neighbors who run into each other on the way to their cars in the morning]

Bob: "Hey Pete I noticed that you saw me so lets make some worthless smalltalk."

Pete:"So the weatherman said that we might have rain today, but I'm hoping we don't. By the way Bob I hate your tie and there are coffee stains on your shirt cuff."

Bob:"Well I hate your car Pete, what do they call that color anyway? Vomit green? which reminds me, you still haven't returned the tools I let you borrow."

Pete:"yeah well you don't have to be such a jerk about it, then again it wouldn't be the first time.."

[To be continued...?]

now this may be a tad extreme but you get the point. Some things should be kept to yourself like JP mentioned. “shine your beautiful light, shine your beautiful self”..and shine your beautiful ***. Seriously, whoever wrote this originally probably had good intentions, but the writing comes off being cheesier than a dump truck full of cheetos...See what I mean? Do you enjoy me being really honest and putting it out there? neutral

Just my .02 wink

Don't get angry, this is a highly debatable topic so people should look at both ends of the spectrum

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 15, 2006 7:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
Seriously, whoever wrote this originally probably had good intentions, but the writing comes off being cheesier than a dump truck full of cheetos..


I wrote that, after a meditation last night.

I didn't really know where to put it, so i thought let's put it in the cloud.

I'm glad it was inspiring to others as well.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 15, 2006 2:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I enjoyed it smile

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 15, 2006 8:29 pm    Post subject: Re: stay true to yourself Reply with quote

pasQuale wrote:
Stay true to your Self.
Stay true to your intent. Stay true to your love and your soul.

Who you truly are cannot be denied, for it is a denial of yourself.
Be true to yourself. Show who you are. Shine your Light upon us.

Don't be afraid of what others might think.
Don't deny yourself because of fear for other's opinion.

If everybody would do that, nobody would truly live.

Be yourself, that is who you are. Your essence.

Don't fear those who ridicule, for they don't know who they are.

Be true to yourself, be true to your spirit.

What a waste, if you came to earth, just to hide. Shine your beautiful light, shine your beautiful self.

Stop denying your true nature. Stay strong for who you are.

Stop hiding behind walls.

stop hiding NOW.


I often say things along those lines... I think that is something that needs to be said to everyone, to stop them being what others want them to be. We should all be ourselves, because everyone else is taken.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 15, 2006 8:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Rad, being true to yourself isn't the same thing as saying every thought you have outloud. After all, those are just thoughts and not neccesarily our 'true' self anyway. Q, your poem kind of sounds like trying to reach enlightenment (i.e. our true selves). Like the personalities we present to the world aren't really us, but just a way of interacting. And that we shouldn't be afraid of trying to look for the purer form of ourselves.

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