I tend to think love is like a drug being forced through your head and you have no power to control whether you use that power or for what. I see many friends fall in love or strong lust and I tell them “in 3weeks you will just find out something and you won’t be happy no more” it sounds great to be in love.
But with the ever changing cycles of 7yrs going through us it seems impossible to see that someone could be with someone else and they could both love each other.
I feel like as if I want to be in love but I know that even if I found a girl tmoro that could love me I know I would change in 7yrs which would mean it could only happen for a short time.
What I try to do now is love for everything about them apart from the physical even if the physical is great, and see the beauty inside. I prefer having girls as friends and been able to hug them and help them rather than love them and eventually hate them. That way i have a friend for life rather than a girlfriend for 7yrs