Asking people to define love is just the same as asking someone the meaning of life (although they can’t say 42 at the expense of a nerdy giggle). Love is strange, because it can be both the extremes - utterly wonderful, and utterly painful. In my experiance, painful, but one should remain optimistic…
The rush given from love makes me feel like I’m on the top of the world. But the higher you are, the harder you fall.
I’m soooo paranoid when it comes to the dating scene. I can’t seem to trust anybody… I dunno. There are certain ones I’d go with if I knew it wasn’t a joke and they weren’t trying to hurt me… but I’m not sure if they’re interested. =/
This is why i don’t date girls, and eat chocolate pudding instead.
Because chocolate pudding is always there.
And if its not there, it’s accessible 24 hours from any store.
And pudding is a good listener, and never laughs at what you say.
Pudding never critisizes your thoughts or hopes or dreams.
Pudding also supplies you with various supplements.
Pudding isn’t worried about its appearance, because it knows you will love it anyways.
Pudding doesn’t act insanely and is always and always be, your faithful pudding.
Pudding doesn’t wake you up at 3am because ‘it needs to talk’. It waits until the appropriate time (dessert) to calmly express its feelings, in form of taste.
Pudding ALSO doesnt get jealous if you have other brands of pudding, because it realises that ANY pudding is a GOOD pudding. In fact, it encourages sampling of the many varieties that it’s species has to offer, as it is solely interested in your wellbeing.
Pudding doesn’t cost much.
Pudding is solid, faithful, and will stay by your side for life.
Pudding is HONEST, RELIABLE, CARES LESS ABOUT WHAT OTHERS SAY. PUDDING GREETS YOU EVERY DAY WITHOUT FAIL AND ALWAYS PUTS YOU IN A CHEERY MOOD.
I posted here not long ago saying that i didnt know wath being in love feel like. Well now i do…
I really think i have fallen in love this time. I fel so utterly confused. I really 100% dont know how she feels for me. Its so hard to tell… And i dont know if i think falling in love is a good thing or a bad thing.
So this is how love feels to me. Really confusing.
While I have my own theory on love–which you may be able to figure out if you read my postings in the “First Kiss”-thread–I still found this an interesting READ
Doesn’t matter how old you are…I know im 15…everyone says you can’t be ‘in love’ at 15 but it’s posible…It’s hard for me though cause i know i can’t have him…I know he can’t be mine…But i know it’s love…It’s been there for a long time…it’s hard to get over…dont know if i can but ( for your question)…I don’t really wanna fall in love again…It scares me
Didn’t anyone find n00dle’s comparison of girls to pudding utterly hilarious? I thought it was just classic. But also very sad. You’ll find someone one day, n00dle. Just keep up the wit and you’ll have 'em lining up at your door.
I don’t think I’ve ever truely been in love. Just little flings
BTW I glanced through an article in a medical journal the other day and according to recent studys the chemicals that cause long-term relationships and the ones that cause love @ first sight are quite different. So a word to the wise, according to science, falling love at first sight does not mean that 364 days later you will still find them appealing/attractive. It could just be a confusing cocktail of brain chemicals just “tricking” you into feeling like you’re in love. (or something along those lines)…interesting read.
Allright all…I just looked at this thread, and I actually do believe, that as naive as it may sound, I might have been in love. Why not?
I suppose that I really just lost contact with this person…because I never spoke up and told him how I felt. And I admit, some of the feelings that I had towards him have subsided. I guess maybe you have to be ‘out of love’ to figure out what being ‘in love’ feels like (does that make any sense?) Just to observe things from a distance and really get a grip on what you had…you can’t possibly do that when you are in love and so confused. I think you have lose something to really realize what you had, and losing contact with this person made me realize how much I missed him…
Anyway, I remember what that was like. I started to get this huge crush on him, and I was completely scatterbrained. I wrote dozens of poems about him…countless diary entries…and I kept on losing things because I couldn’t concentrate very well. But I liked it…and why I liked being in that position I’m still not sure.
Just…I’d never felt this way about anyone in my life before. I saw him as perfect, although like all of us, he had imperfections, because well, he was human I was so afraid to tell him how I felt because I thought that it could ruin my chance of getting to know him better. I thought he was so beautiful…and even I can’t really describe what it was I felt and understand it. I think love is confusing like that. I just know how I felt when it was there, and how I felt without it…