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PostPosted: Fri 10 Aug, 2007  Reply with quote

I made this topic in a dream not so long ago. Just thought it'd be nice to make it for real.

Transexuality or gender dysphoria is when someone is uncomfortable with their assigned gender and want to be the opposite gender. (Hey, tell me if I'm off or something.)

As some of you guys know, I kind of fit into this category. I'm not male but am very often mistaken for one on the internet. I'm actually a girl and I hate it with a burning passion. I feel so fricken stuck. It's like I'm not a girl or a boy. Just a boy trapped in a girl's body. Not to mention it's way harder to "come out of the closet" too because transexuality isn't as accept as homosexuality. sadblauw

I want to know how people feel about transexuals and transexuality. (People who hate their gender, cross dressers, and changing their genders.)

And don't worry about offending me or anything. I can kind of understand how people would be against it.


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PostPosted: Fri 10 Aug, 2007  Reply with quote

Whatever floats your boat!

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PostPosted: Fri 10 Aug, 2007  Reply with quote

I agree with ilovelucid. I actually have a very close friend(girl) who is engaged to a transexual(guy in girls body). And I respect her very much, both of them really.

Hm, if I might be so bold though, I do have a question for you to kinda bring it back to this forum's focus(yes, I know it is just in the lucid lounge). What gender are you when you dream(ND or LD)? just wondering, dont feel obliged to answer


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PostPosted: Fri 10 Aug, 2007  Reply with quote

As long as you are happy with yourself, what anyone else thinks should be taken with a grain of salt. Whether you're gay, straight, bi, or transexual, you are still a human being. smile

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PostPosted: Fri 10 Aug, 2007  Reply with quote

Up until the time I was 13 I wanted to be female, actually felt I should be female.

But for whatever reason, when I hit 13/14 I just stopped caring. No idea why, guess I just stopped thinking about it.

As far as my thoughts on transexuals go, I don't have any thoughts on it, I don't assign genders/race/colour/sexuality to people.


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PostPosted: Fri 10 Aug, 2007  Reply with quote

Interesting topic...

I agree with the "whatever floats your boat".

I guess this makes you the ultimate tom-boy then, Wyvern?

Mohegan, maybe that could be due to the fact of puberty. geenidee When I was younger, I had thought's of being more comfortable as a girl, but I was never too avid about it. I had A dream that I was a girl, and I felt more comfortable. Though, now I guess because I've grown older (and maybe more mature and wiser tounge2 ), I definitely would not feel comfortable in a girl's body. lachgroen



(and as rarebreed brought up)
Wyvern, now that I think about it, when I do get to Sky Island, what gender will you be?



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PostPosted: Fri 10 Aug, 2007  Reply with quote

yes i kinda sorta fit into this catagory too

Although that may be a bit apperent from some of the dreams i have lach1 most people think i'm just goofy

and that's definitely part of it. But the whole "uncomfortable with gender" thing was since... hmmm a Long time

Anyway i've never really been bothered about it unless i thought about it. But recently it's been a little more prevalent , maybe because i have never expressed it to anyone so it sorta built up.

so yeah but i think i'm done with denying it or any of that crap. Of course with my friends and family, i won't go ahead and say anything meh anywho so yeah that's my story, it's not a very good one tounge2

but even beyond that i think there are a ton different variables, for one, i doubt i would be content either way.

I've always been fascinated with transformation, and stuff like that. So that might contribute.

Anyway, that is one of the main reasons for me pursuing lucid dreaming.

and GOD DAMN THAT FEELS GOOD TO GET OFF MY CHEST

honestly really good. i was even going to be all empowered and change the gender in my profile to "none specified" lach2 yeah that would show em'! lach1 but apperently i can't. well whatever


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PostPosted: Fri 10 Aug, 2007  Reply with quote

Concerning my goals in life, I've always wanted to be male.

My secret dream (which I'll probably never end up pursuing) is to be a rockstar. lach1 And I strongly believe males sing MUCH better than females... I've been training myself to sing in the styles of my favorite male vocalists (not working out so well lachgroen ), just for the hell of it...

But I'm happy with being a girl... I mean... I'll hate it sometimes, but I'm too... attached... (I guess) to seriously consider if there is a conflict with who I am.

Besides... I completely adore guys... hugs

But I honestly think that if I were a guy, I'd probably be the same as I am a girl... personality-wise...

*shrugs*


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PostPosted: Fri 10 Aug, 2007  Reply with quote

TRJR, you EGS is showing! And I think the T-gun can also "get that off you chest"

I think I now have a new fun goal for my next LD, too. This topic is really making me curious.

Perhaps what we all need sometimes is a T-gun (transformation gun). lachgroen



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PostPosted: Fri 10 Aug, 2007  Reply with quote

yeah well wouldn't that just solve the worlds problems? unfortunately i don't see that happening in the near future so i guess i'm stuck

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PostPosted: Fri 10 Aug, 2007  Reply with quote

Isn't anyone on this forum (besides me) comfortable in their current gender? I mean, I kinda expected wyvern to make a topic like this, but this kind of response, is, well, unexpected...


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I mean, everyone that replied to this so far seemed to say they had wyvern's troubles. Isn't that just a little odd?


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PostPosted: Fri 10 Aug, 2007  Reply with quote

shatterspike1 wrote:
Isn't anyone on this forum (besides me) comfortable in their current gender? I mean, I kinda expected wyvern to make a topic like this, but this kind of response, is, well, unexpected...


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I mean, everyone that replied to this so far seemed to say they had wyvern's troubles. Isn't that just a little odd?


:shrugs:

maybe a lot more people have the problem then commonly thought. I mean, it's not exactly looked high upon by society, so this thread could prove a great chance to let it all out for once, and i for one feel safe from any prejudice from doing so here, as i assume i could not find such comfort anywhere else


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PostPosted: Fri 10 Aug, 2007  Reply with quote

Whoa... Seriously?

I've never felt more like a minority...


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PostPosted: Fri 10 Aug, 2007  Reply with quote

lach1 i don't think you have to worry about that

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PostPosted: Fri 10 Aug, 2007  Reply with quote

Shatter, I am more than comfortable with my gender. But here (LD4all) people are pretty open, so this slight dissatisfaction with their given sex could be pretty normal. It may not be the gender per se, but the stereotypes associated with it.

Wyvern, just take care to not let what any prejudiced person says to heart. You're a good person, so don't worry about people not liking you on the ridiculous grounds of your transsexuality.

I think that you shouldn't come out of the closet IRL until you are fully comfortable with it and confident about who you are. It will show, and potentially stop people from picking on you.


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