It is not true that anything can happen, only what you allow to happen, because it is active in your subconscious mind.
For example, lets say its cloudy just a little bit.
One man says to you, it might rain, or it might not.
One man says, surely the sun will come out.
One man says oh my god, surely it is going to flood and kill us all.
Well, in a dream, each of them would be right, so its up to you to choose what you want to experience, and focus on the good stuff, and don’t pay attention to the rest!
Life is just like that, but its much more slow, and somewhat bound by the laws of physics, but only for those who have not transcended them. We are capable of anything we imagine.
It is not true that anything can happen to you, what is going to happen no matter what is karma, which is just the collection of our beliefs, thoughts, and what we focus on every day. We heal that by changing the way we think about the world, watching our thoughts, and if something happens we pray or think about how we would like it to change, and take an attitude of humility and kindness and gratitude.
If we notice the clouds and we have fear of rain, then we would say, I would very much like it to be sunny, and ask for these feelings to be healed, so that I can always be happy, and always be in perfect weather.
Look the fear in the eyes, it has no form, it will disappear unless you think thoughts about it.
the best way to fix all of this , is to meditate, to sit quietly and let the thoughts do what they want to do, until they quiet down, and if you need to, correct the ones you don’t agree with , but don’t fight with them, because they are illusions, like feathers in the wind, but they are sticky with glue, they will stick to you ONLY if you touch them and argue with them, otherwise they will blow away.
this is karma, whatever you want to call it,
what we chose to watch on tv or read about, listen to music about, will largely influence our freedom happiness, or imprisonment within illusion sand absolute lies,
afterall what are dreams made up of but imagination ? That is why we use all the tools we are given resonsiblity, and only expose our minds to what we WANT to have happen to us.
I.e. if someone wants to kill themselves because they don’t believe they can he happy, and they are depressed about relationships, and think they can never have a good one, they might try to watch really sad movies so they can feel more pain.
but if they are patient they can have the exact relationship they want, its all in their power and no one else’s,
they might be able to tell you 52,000 reasons why they can’t be happy, and they are right, but only because they focus so strongly,
it takes work and effort to change our reality but we have absolute control over everything that happens to us by forgiving everything that harms us, that we don’t like, and saying, i am so sorry that happened, please bless this situation that it will be healed, instead of hating it and judging it, which makes it happen even more.
life is a dream, and everything is always okay, but like attracts like, which is what the mind is for, a tool.
and meditation heals even the most deep emotional pains and crazy ideas, because all thoughts are illusions, and all dreams are illusions.
and all feelings are illusions, and when we are taking care of our body and our mind, and everything quiets down enough, what happens is a state of wellbeing and bliss, comfort and peace, knowing that everything is okay.
meditation automatically dissolves bad dreams