Hahaha second that !!
It took me a month around here to unblock my mind ! And I’m not completely done with this. But coming here everyday and thinking about LDs and this forum and taking seriously my DJ again…I became a bit obsessed by this and then I started to have wonderful experiences.
Just like the others said, it’s when I read others journals that I began to understand that it IS possible to have lots and lots of LDs, it’s not just something someone said randomly on the forum. And when you read others’ experiences, you will understand their path, and create your own.
Your mind will remember what your read, you will wonder about it, you will sometimes remember it while you dream, in a ND or while becoming lucid.
The thing is, when you discover lucid dreaming, you should be precise in what you are looking for, don’t just say “I want to have lucid dream”, and if you fail “I can’t have lucid dreams”.
Because it’s like saying “I want to be rich” without having any plan in your head, you’ll stay poor.
You have to think, THINK about it. What is it you want ? Do you want to meet someone in a dream ? Do you want to know how to fly ? Do you want to meet your SC ?
Make a list of all your ideas ! It will be better for you when you have this.
Read it before going to bed, and as time goes you will have the reflex to have a look at it and put new ideas there.
Keep a DJ near your bed, so that even if you have a simple ND, you can take notes on the morning, and you will improve your dream recall.
It might take time, but if you have motivation, to just read others’ journals and experiences, and think about this when you go to bed, then you are sure to construct your own experience and begin to understand better what you want to achieve in dreams.
Motivation and believing that there are no limits in your dream are the most important things. Planning is also helpful, if you want to be sure to remember what you want to do while lucid. This way, you can also see that you are making progress.
But you know what, I just realised it’s the same IRL…for anything you want to do, not just things you are good at. Even for your work (and I know I have to find good autobiographies to read but right now I don’t have time !! )