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| Protected too much (split from "A dream made me...) |
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(mod edit) This is split from the "A dream made me write a letter to a girl" topic in Fruits of Lucidity. As the discussion wasn't about fruits of lucidity anymore, I moved it in here 
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That's great Seraphim, I'm glad you met someone, but don't take things so fast. From your post I gather this was only one day?? Even if it was longer than that, I think thats still a bit of an exaggeration. Don't let fantasy and lonliness make something much more than what it is. *sigh* I am currently having problems with the girl I mentioned earlier. Her father doesnt let guys call her, and I've been discussing it with him. Doesn't look very hopeful though, and its now been a month since I've talked to her at all. I'm beginning to lose hope and am trying to move on. I went on a date two nights ago, but I feel bad. I'll never know what could've happened, I really think she was special. |
If you care for her, don't let her get away 
I know what it's like to deal with parents that don't like you  , but there are ways around it. Maybe this girl could use an instant messenger to talk to you? |
believe it or not, she doesn't even have email, I think her parents don't allow her. she's a bit sheltered... i was supposed to receive a sermon in the mail from her dad today, but i don't think i got it. i respect that he wants to protect his daughter and he's Christian and all (and as every last one of you know, so am I  ), but I think he's going about this the wrong way. I mean, a month of this crap, just to talk to her  .
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| Posted: Wed 15 Jun, 2005 |
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You are the last person to question ones morals. Yes I am being defensive over this, "childish fling", as you so like to refer to it. It is more than a "childish fling". You know nothing about our relationship. |
Then tell us. What don't we know?
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Doesn't have email?? Wow, that's a major bummer.
I mean, it's not like any harm will come to her from you and her talking to each other.
I respect everyone's beleifs but how does her dad expect her to have a family or be married someday if he wont let her socialize? 
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| Posted: Thu 16 Jun, 2005 |
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Immaculate conception 
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| Posted: Thu 16 Jun, 2005 |
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Immaculate conception |
Ofcourse, how could I have forgotten?? 
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| Posted: Thu 16 Jun, 2005 |
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Doesn't have email?? Wow, that's a major bummer.
I mean, it's not like any harm will come to her from you and her talking to each other.
I respect everyone's beleifs but how does her dad expect her to have a family or be married someday if he wont let her socialize? |
Yeah, I know, its weird.
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| Posted: Thu 16 Jun, 2005 |
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Immaculate conception |
huh?
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| Posted: Thu 16 Jun, 2005 |
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Maybe her parents are and expect their daughter to be a virgin rest of her life....which, imho is really the best way to ensure a girl won't be one as soon as she escapes them.
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yeah, once we were sitting in an empty classroom while she practiced her violin, just talking, (for like 5 minutes)but she told me not to tell anyone because her parents think if she's in a room alone with a guy for more than five minutes, she's lost her virginity. 
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Sick, imho.... if a girl doesn't learn how to respect herself, either from too much protection or not enough then she's gonna have problems in that area and end up learning the hardest way possible
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yeah, once we were sitting in an empty classroom while she practiced her violin, just talking, (for like 5 minutes)but she told me not to tell anyone because her parents think if she's in a room alone with a guy for more than five minutes, she's lost her virginity. |
"Your not aloud to be around boys untill after your married!!"
Seriously though, what a bummer. Its not like you guys will get pregnant or catch a disease form hanging out with each other.
You have my sympathies about this situation.
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| Posted: Fri 17 Jun, 2005 |
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I feel bad for this girl. Do you think this girl fears her parents or respects them? When she makes comments like that what are her expressions like?
My daughter is about the age of the majority of the hs students here, and I could never see misleading her like that when it comes to sex ed.
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| Posted: Sat 18 Jun, 2005 |
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well idk, she was serious but not like way frightened or anything. plus she could have been exaggerating.
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| Posted: Sat 18 Jun, 2005 |
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Maybe her father have had bad experiences about these kinds of things...
Like something that happened in the past that could make him protect his own daughter... perhaps he had a friend in his youth who had an unwanted pregnancy... or perhaps he had a sister abused by a boyfriend... or someone close to him commited suicide because of such things done to her... etc.
I can't help but feel that something may have happened to him... or there is some thing he was forced to bear witness to, something he doesn't want to see his own daughter go through.
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| Posted: Sat 18 Jun, 2005 |
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Maybe, idk. Either way it still kinda sucks.
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