Using attractive people as dreamsigns doesn’t have to just be a sex thing, too. I usualy encounter some pretty unusual people in my dreams, so I’ve started doing reality checks whenever I notice someone who interests me, for whatever reason. Don’t know how much it is going to help me though, in my present state - I did an RC while dreaming the other night and decided (stupidly) that I was indeed wide awake. Grrrr.
you guys are lucky. i haven’t gone lucid yet but i almost did a few nights ago. i was in a classroom sitting on a couch with a girl who wanted to have sex with me. i thought “hey it’s just a dream, wait, its just a dream?” then i freakin relapsed and the next thing i know i woke up(still in the dream)the next morning with a different girl in my bed… like some lame pg movie… i didnt even get to cop a feel!!! 
one time i was in the libary and i saw the clock on the wall and it was broken, i assumed it was a dream cuz it only had four numbers on it (those kinda clocks) and it wasnt moviing (the seconds hand), so i saw this girl and i jsut straight up asked her to wank me 
, she freaked out and chased me out swearing and cursing at me…thats when i realized i was wrong. 
I would say I feel sorry for you…but, I don’t. 
This is why you always look for confirmation before you do something that might be somewhat embarassing.
I never really wanted to have sex in LD, but i remember one low level lucid dream where I had really weird sex. It was some of the first LD’s I can remember almost ten year ago I was flying with wings and stuff, but the sex part was crappy one. I had sex with objects, like a stove and pillar of a building and I ejaculated three times that night 
Every time I woke up that night I had wet pants (dunno why i was sleeping with them on), anyways it was bit frustrating to clean yourself after every wake up.
And guys. Try celibacy for month or so and there will be wet dreams, the nature will take care of it’s own 
Hey it works for me too! My general thing is “if i don’t ‘take care of it’ after ten days I’ll have a sex dream.” It’s been like that since I hit puberty. Maybe I really am a dude…? j/k 
"Try celibacy for month or so and there will be wet dreams, the nature will take care of it’s own "
-apart from the fact that its totally agains the nature:):):)Im not taking life threatening actions anyways:)
" I had sex with objects, like a stove and pillar of a building and I ejaculated three times that night"-
pretty good score considering the turn ons :smile:
lol…take care Amra:)
Hahahahah you had sex with a stove…lol that’s hilarious!
I have never had sex in an LD but i have many times in normal dream although i have never had orgasm that way. But recently ive had to orgasm simply by seeig people…like in one dreams these to girls started kissing and emmediatly i had and orgasm…
weird thing is these are not regular orgasms, i feel them more arround my chest and plexus rather than my genitals… 
I had a dream a few weeks ago where I was trying to hide my porn magazines from my dad. In real life I only have five of them but in the dream no matter how hard I tried to hide them I would just open my closet and there were stacks of Penthouses falling onto the floor. As I frantically tried to hide them under my bed subscription cards were falling out everywhere. I actually became lucid in the very end when the rediculousness of the situation hit me. Unfortunately I was so shocked that I had been dreaming the whole time that I woke up.
Hahaha… This threads provided a few very good laughs… for me and everyone reading.
sex with a stove… ahah… amazing, would think that would hurt alot more than please…and i mean a pillar… I can’t see how that came about but…Good on ya, thats some classic stuff.
Sex in dreams is something I don’t really seek out to much importance, I would rather experience something completly out of this world, and save the sex for real life, but as some said, sometimes it’s impossible to escape the inevitable…
I had a lucid dream last night where I had sex with my girlfriend in hte bowling alley I work in. It was weird because I had anal sex with her and then I had to poop for the rest of the dream. 
I wanted to go fly but I was afraid I would poop my pants in real life.
So while I was sitting on the pot I decided to look at my hands. They had a weird pattern on them and then turned blue and I could see my reflection in them.
Weird Stuff…
I have a terrible time even in my LDs to get a dream character to have sex with me.
But a few months back I discovered that if I concentrate hard enough on a certain spot in my pelvis for a few seconds, I can generate a spontaneous orgasm, and very occasionally two or three. (I’m female).
Only works in dreams, though…too bad!
“Only works in dreams, though…too bad!”
I bet i could change that opinion:)One of the few times I had sex in a LD (to me sex is not a priority to do in a LD), this beautiful girl who lay beneath me suddenly changed into a cat. I threw the damn animal on the ground and I woke up. I don’t know why this transformation happened because we were doing fine and at that moment I had fully control of the situation… It was a damn pitty because foreplay was just finished 
During the other times everything went ok, although I’ve never achieved orgasm.
Something strange happened during another LD: without any reason I suddenly felt a rush of testosterone and adrenaline flowing through my dream body. Although I had not intended it, I now felt a uncontrolable desire for sex. Unfortunately I didn’t see any girls in the environment, so I started to dig a hole into the muddy ground with my hand and started to fuck the ground, which surprisingly felt great Then I heard people coming, so I tried to hide myself, but before they could find me I woke up.
Thats some funny stuff mystic!!
I too have had a dream where the girl I was having sex with turned into a cat, but i think i did to. It was very strange.
oooh i missed this topic. Where’s the original post at, got some catching up to do lol.
well i don’t know if anyone else has said this, but many sex dreams that cause RL ejactualation is not just the dream. Many people masturbate in their sleep (particularly those who do it regularly in waking) so many wetdreams are caused by that as well as the amazing sensations that the dream offers as well.
Just thought you’d like to know that lol.
I’ve only ever had 2 wet dreams in my entire life, (21yrs old) and i never once had one when i hadn’t masturbated/had sex for a while. The dreams themselves were odd, one dream was really weird sex and the other… well that had nothing to do with sex at all (please don’t ask lol)
In my limited (nearly 5 month long) experience with LDing, the very few full-blown LD’s that I have had (all the rest were lucid moments or failed RC’s) usually led to me seeking sex of some kind (yes, I am an oversexed male).
The first time (not my first LD, but actually my first full blown LD), I was looking for a girl and the lady I asked to take me to her said simply “you have to fill out a form”. This response shocked me, and I responded “you better do what I say, this is MY dream and you are a construct of MY imagination. So this means if you don’t follow my orders I will make you DISAPPEAR” and on cue, I started snapping in her face. This was a hilarious story, because after I did the snapping NO disappearance occurred. I think this helped to limit my lucidity and faith in the fact that I was dreaming, and when I tried to go at it with the lady I simply…awoke. I can’t seem to get past kisses on the cheek, LOL. <insert 5000000 expletives here>
My second full blown LD that I can remember (one of the four or so) involved me walking down a suburban street, when for a rather interesting and sudden reason I did an RC. I was dreaming. So I walked to a nearby house and, even though the dream was slowly fading (and looking at my hands AND rubbing them seemed to fail me, so I panicked trying to remember the ‘third’ method, which I later remembered after I awoke was spinning) I headed inside and found myself in a house party with people from my school. One highly attractive girl in there that I recognized was sitting in a chair, so I went over and “propositioned” her. Her response was, “I will tomorrow.” I learned an IMPORTANT LDing lesson that night; NEVER GIVE UP. I asked her again, this time more authoritatively. The response was an excited “YES!” in a loud voice. This response change so amused me and shocked me that I already accelerated the waking up process, and again I didn’t get past cheek-kissing. SON OF A BITCH.
My third full-blown LD resulted in nothing sexual, and neither did my fourth.
But the fifth was the worst of them all…as documented in the post I made recently in the “Quest for Lucidity” forum, I asked the powers that be in my head for a hot girl around the corner and…my mom was there. The surprise of this moment (coupled with the fact that I still didn’t know how to stabilize the dream, MUST REMEMBER VERBAL COMMANDS) just kicked me into awakeness.
I think I’m doomed to never have a proper sexual experience in my LD’s. Rather amusing, neh?
LOL!! 
Oh my gosh! What would Freud have to say?! That’s hilarious!