After trying a month+, I finally last night had very short and blurry LD! 
I was near(atleast I think so…?) two nights before, but something failed and I woke up.
My hint: Try this: xs4all.nl/~pasquale/TTM/r1/index.html
It didn´t work me for first time (exept I remembered dreams better than usual) but in the second time(last night) it did.
This night it´s going to be a 3rd time. 
1 month? Don’t worry, that’s nothing 
It took me a lot longer to get my first one, but after having my first… I had 1 every day for the rest of the week (which meant 4 lucid dreams in one week)
So keep on trying.
Once you get your first, it’ll be a LOT easier.
I would recommend trying every technique there is, and mix them up. Use some practical ones. For instance, I have never tried to wake myself up in the middle of the night, and go to sleep later to have a lucid dream. There’s no way I’m going to limit my sleep, so I never choose this as my main technique. Find something practical, and focus on it. By being incredibly interested in getting a first LD, you’ll most likely do so without successfully using a technique.
Don’t worry, keep on trying. You’ll get there.
mastertazo:
When you say that you’ve been trying for over a month, what exactly have you been doing - and how often? 
mastertazo wrote,
Just curious, Why do you keep posting the same question? Is it a joke? 
i have been thinking "Must have Lucid Dream, I wan to see a Lucid Dream, etc) and i have even done little things like reading words, etc to see if i am in the Lucid World. I have used the thing where you look at your hands and say “Am I dreaming?” but only 2 times
you’re gunna have to do RC’s a LOT more than 2 times! Try about 30 times a day don’t worry! You’ll have a LD, just give it time and a lot of effort and you’ll have one soon, don’t worry. I’ve been trying to have a LD for about 3 months and have only had one last month and that’s it, It’s not a huge amount but it was great none the less, so just relax 
I agree with Charlottedreamer that 2 times a day doing a rc is not enough.
Try like every halfhour 
Jeff
Just Keep trying, I used to Lucid Dreams when I was a Child, Ive had around 10 all together Bieng a Child, Mostly i used to just transform into a Power ranger and fight evil with my dad (blah i used to like power rangers when i was little) But I havent Had a Lucid Dream In 6 Years. Then Agian I never Knew what they were Until Yesterday when I was Studying Sleep Paralysis(i have it)
Good Luck.
When should i do it cause people might think i am a freak if i do it in the middle of a class ( i go to high school)
and is meditation any good?
Hey everyone - i’m pretty new here:)
Just thought i’d add that i’ve been trying to LD for the past 2 weeks without success…yet. I’ve been doing RC’s every 40 mins (my watch has a countdown timer that reminds me to do an RC) but just looking at my watchface and willing the numbers to change, trying to remember what i’ve been doing for the past 40 mins and checking a lightswitch if there is one around.
I hope this is an effective method 
i don’t want to wreck it by overdoing it…
when i wake up (lucid?) i
Just try and find some writing (a sign, a book title, whatever) and read it a couple of times. If it changes. you’re dreaming.
Also, if you’ve got time, try and imagine what it would look like if you were dreaming, what you’d want to do, etc.
Deev: I think the only way you can wreck RCs is by making them routine. If it becomes a habit that is automatic then it might loose its effectiveness. As long as you are doing them with your full attention every time, go for it.
Thanx WaNaBeE. I’ll try that when i sleep (1 hour from now?)
could u be more specific?? what exactly is your problem, do you become lucid and wake up, in which case u should try:
good luck and i hope u get lucid!oh ya, and i forgot. also maybe you just don’t remember ur dreams do u don’t kno wut the problem is, or u’ve had a lucid and u can’t remember it, so try the dream journal! good luck!
Well, as awful as this sounds, I’m actually getting some encouragement from the fact that I’m not the only one having troubling learing to LD. Ive been working pretty consistently for 6+ months now, with only one blurry and quick wake up LD. I do frequent RC’s, MILD, use NovaDreamer, and my dream recall is 1+ per night… I just either dont end up doing RC while in a dream, or despite the purple dogs with yellow polkadots everywhere, i decide that everything is normal.
I’m gonna try drinking more water and other tricks to get dream recall to at least 2-3 per night, and keep trying! Also, having a discussion board like this is great for both motivation and ideas!
Peace,
Sruthan
Sruthan many of the ppl here cant ld yet…so dont feel to bad!
Maybe i make a poll about it i wonder how many in percentage are lucid at this forum!
I do know that when ppl dont have info about it only about one on 7 persons get lucid lol spontaneous…with info that will be more…but never it will be all!
Alayambo is a girl on this forum that has tried 4 3 years now and still nothing…what more can i say…dont make to much fuzz about it just try and enjoy the ride
Jeff
Thanks Jeff! Working on it is a lot more fun having this forum to discuss… doesn’t feel so lonely!
Thanks and Peace!
Sruthan
Good luck and happy dreams Sruthan
Jeff