Thats pretty scary, i knew the story was going to flop once you said
Its kinda of funny ,that this subject came to talk about, last night down at South Beach, i was drinking beer on Ocean Blvd(this is IRL) we saw these tall big cross dressing drag queens walking down the street. It was really funny, i didnt know to laugh out loud untill everybody else on the street did. Someone even screamed out “This is better than HBO” and we all continued to laugh.
But on the dreaming behalf, try to stay away from scray sh*t like that, unless it will be your day’s reality.
Sex in dreams can sometimes even surpass the real thing IMO. Last night I had a dream of group sex in a well-light mansion floor, it was… interesting, since I haven’t attended an orgy yet
Here is a bold statement: sex is much better in NON-LUCID dreams!
Come on, face it. When you start lucid dreaming, of course the first thing you think is “I want sex”. But when you do it, you get excited and immediately wake up… I bet this is true for most LDers, especially the beginners. But in a non-lucid sex dream:
you will get very excited, but that doesn’t mean you wake up and miss the best part…
you don’t know what to expect. So it’s not boring, it’s a thriller!
most important: YOU THINK IT IS REAL!!! You really believe you’re having fun with three gorgeous ladies (or men for that matter). That creepy “it’s just a dream, in real life I’m still a nerd”-thought stays far away.
BrainHacker: I agree, but then again, I haven’t had LD’s to the extent on where I could create a sexual environment, and that wouldn’t be on my priority list. Right now I’m aiming to go through a mirror
i had sex in a LD whic lasted for a while. it felt lik 20 min but when i think about it maybe 5 min in real time. I had sex wit this relly hot girl lik 20 dfferent ways in this bathroom which i changed nto a clean white room wit thro pillows covering the floo. but i had sum normal dreams where the feeling was better than the LD one. but id still have to put the LD one in the top because it was my first one and the wave of knowledge and power i got when it first happened combined wit the sex and oher stuff i id puts it in my top 3.
Mmmm sex in my lucid dreams is pure fun
Although there is a tendency i wake up before round 8 lol!
But it can be so good and so real and its nice to pick a girl u like and she just say nothing (like no i dont think so lol) but fly with u on the path of pleasure…
how’ever sometimes in a lower control lucid dream…i cant find a nice girl…should be forbidden by law…
But i choose only now and then 4 sex in a ld…exploring is also much fun!
Sex can be pretty awesome in lucid dreams. But it’s also a good trick for staying lucid longer At first, I never had sexual lucid dreams, but now can have them pretty much whenever I want. Normally I’ll just go for it if it comes about - but otherwise don’t make too much of an effort.
I’ll tell a story from a recent experience. In this, I found myself in some kind of play area. I’m talking to an old friend, when I gradually, I begin to realise I’m dreaming. “Sorry man, I gotta go”. I decide I wanna find a group of people to do some shared meditaiton with. The only problem is, the people I’m surrounded by don’t look as they would be too interested. I notice a group of people on the tennis courts down below. They are a colourful bunch. I jump down to them, and try and settle into a position for meditation. Of course, the problem is all the people darting round the court. Someone runs into me, and I am beginning to lose lucidity.
I decide to use my last moments wisely. I walk over to one of the girls playing tennis. She’s not really my type, but it doesn’t matter, I just walk up to her, and slip my arm around her waist.
As everything begins to fade, I try and retain her image, and soon we are kissing. Suspended in that dark space (familiar to many lucid dreamers i am sure), I focus my feelings on her smooth waistline, and soon end up in another room, which seems to be her own. In this case, I ended up opting for the sex
But many a time, I have used these moments of high sexual tension, as a gateway to another location - and then just walked away to do something different. Anyone else relate to this?
Um… I’ve had dream sex with my spirit/dream guide MANY MANY times and it was great. Is that weird or somehow wrong? haha. I’m a RL virgin so sometimes even when I’m not even very lucid I come to the realization in my dream that, “hey I want to do the nasty.” I’ve tried it with both genders too. I also one time found that I had a penis for some reason so I masturbated. Somehow all that stuff seems more desirable when I’m dreaming. People say I’m “freaky” for some reason… ;-D
If only I could use the awareness to become lucid rather to get laid.
Now you made me think: If you i had a vagina would i play with myself…uhmmm… Thats a new post and topic that should be answered, b/c honestly in dreams you reveal what you really want or what you desire, but most can dis-agree with that statement. But very intresting
aydira , thats my first time i have ever seen anyone come up with a topic that is so different.
By the way did you reach a Orgasm with your penis ?
I felt an orgasm but I didn’t ejaculate in the dream or anything but this was many years ago so maybe I didn’t know much about that. Maybe I was just feeling it happen in my real life body? I remember waking up still having an orgasm in my waking body… hope thats not too much info! haha
I think It also just get better the more times you try.
Because you can imagine all the sensations and you get better at it.
The only problem is sometimes afterwards when it seems possible to lose
lucidity.
Sometimes I go right into meditation, 3 circle standing zen, Tibetian Dream Yoga, or Dzochen type meditation so I dont lose lucidity.
I dont recommend doing it often because it depletes “jing”, plus it sets me back on my rest
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Jing is a form of energy in the body. Its kind of like steam. Usually we talk about this in QiGong/ or Internal Arts like tajiquan (tai chi) or pa kua.
Jing can usually be lost after orgasm by either males or females.
You are usually instructed not to do Qigong/Tai chi, or anthing internal after sex, or in the rain, or when its windy, or after a big meal because at these times the bodys energy system is thought to be disrupted for a time. So in short, a LOT of sex is not good for you.
However it is also possible to use “Jing” to lengthen your life. (through practice like real taijiquan, qigong, pa kua chang, hsing-i, etc…
It would probably be out of scope of this forum to go into detail here.
Good magazine, articles, free books on this can be found at:
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Thats cool. My spirit guide likes to do that also. Even unsolicited.
But shes pretty cool about it. Of course then again we talk about everything.
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Ha yeah once I had a dream that me and my spirit guide were having a racey conversation about sex we had or something and the other DCs were so shocked!
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so sometimes even when I’m not even very lucid I come to the realization in my dream that, “hey I want to do the nasty.” I’ve tried it with both genders too. I also one time found that I had a penis for some reason so I masturbated. Somehow all that stuff seems more desirable when I’m dreaming. People say I’m “freaky” for some reason… ;-D