LD Sex

Hehe having sex is sooo hard hehe i’m not gonna say i’ve been praticing hehe (…) had a girlfriend, now single - now i can start again! ow gonna look forward for tonight :happy:

lol! I’m happy for ya DM7 :wink:

And now I think you’re normal, as jack said!
I’ve only tried it and lost lucidity once. You should be stabilizing and keeping the lucid thought in the back of your mind at first!

Hey Dreamers,

I think that virgins can’t have sex in LD’s. It doesn’t work for them.
Strange, but true. For them it’s like masturbating inside a dream character.

Greets,

Thor

I’m a virgin. And I finally beat my obstacle in my dream! :biggrin: So… ahem it is possible. :happy:

I am not a virgin but I do know that having sex does alter what dream sex feels like. I started LDing before I first had sex or had oral sex performed on me and now that I have experienced both sexual intercorse and oral sex it feels much different when I do it in my dreams. However the sensations are all that is different. As long as he/she realizes what goes where, I am pretty sure a virgin can have sex in his/her dream.

I don’t think it’s an issue of ‘can’t’… since virgins have had no sex, they simply don’t know exactly what it feels like. But it’s not like virgins are completely pure and ignorant of sex, you know. :wink: Opposed to a non-virgin, I suppose a virgin would have to imagine what it feels like instead of knowing it. You’d have to conduct a large enquiry to find out whether virgins have had orgasms through LD sex. If they do, then it ‘works’, does it not?

And just because someone hasn’t had sexual intercourse with another person yet, doesn’t mean they have not done anything else. There’s quite a lot of things you can do without a sex partner; there are ‘replacement’ sex toys, porn, etc. In the end I suppose it’s like Park of Koryo said; the sensations are different, but as long as you know what sex is, you can dream of it.

After all, no human has ever really levitated into the air and flew around, but that’s what plenty of LDers (and normal dreamers) do. There’s so many things people have done in their LDs that they haven’t or even can’t do in their real life. They’re dreams, virtual reality - anything is possible. Including sex, most of all sex, because it is an essential part of human nature (no offense to those who have chosen celibacy for some reason).

It seems theres one way to go around all that mess…just stop being virgins people!:)Then you profit both-dream and real life:) :wink:

You make it sound so easy. :grin:

However, most virgins have their own reasons (being shy, or socially inept, religious principles, just not being able to find someone and not wanting to sleep around, having low selfesteem and staying away from physical relationships, avoidance, not having much of a social life, or just not being at the right moment in their life yet), and I don’t think virginity is something to be looked down upon.

Frankly, I’m pretty tired of all the social pressure about losing one’s virginity, and people thinking you’re somehow innocent and ignorant if you haven’t had sex yet. Virgins are not losers, virgins are not stupid, virgins aren’t completely ignorant of what is between their legs. At least, the majority isn’t. :tongue: And virgins can dream of sex. Plenty. :gni:

Well…first of all i was bit joking,hehe im not sending all of you just to go out there and loose it:)
I understand fully what you`re saying but i think i didnt realize it was the way “people thinking you’re somehow innocent and ignorant if you haven’t had sex yet. Virgins are not losers, virgins are not stupid, virgins aren’t completely ignorant of what is between their legs.”
I never thought about it or ppl like this.I just dont like when someone keeps being a virgin or looses it because he/she was told to do so:(
In poland its rather other way around- we put virginity on a high place(at least thats how its seen in media and such) but young people dont give a damn about it:)
So its really up to one and only one-how he/she values it.All im saying with this post is just listen to yourself and go by your feelings.
sorry if my joke looked disrespectable.

Hmm… you guys have raised an interesting point about a RL-virgin’s experience of dream sex. The obvious solution is for all of us RL virgins to have dream sex with each other, then meet together somewhere for RL sex so we can compare the two experiences. :smile:

Another thought: I would think that the sexual experience would be one of those things that is part of that nebulous universal human unconscious. If this is true, a virgin should be able to experience dream sex as if it were real.

It’s okay, I probably reacted a bit sharper than I should’ve. I’m sorry… You weren’t being rude or provocative. ^^ It’s just that for some reason it’s the fifth or sixth time today I hear about it so…
It’s a good thing that virginity is on a high place in Poland. I wish it was the same over here, or people would just respect the lives of others. :slight_smile:

This raises a very interresting thought. I was walking in a dream, wasnt and LD, but some girl just went up to me and well…oral…but i ddint really feel anything. I know that having an LD makes the experience a lot more intense, but omg im a virgin and that would be so annoying if it didnt feel good.

How it feels is not up to you:)So dont worry,just have faith:)
" oral…but i ddint really feel anything"- next time just choose someone else:)Or keep practicing with the one:)

Not that it concerns me, but people seem to be forgetting what the subconscious mind is capable of. Have you never walked up to a wall in an LD and ran your hand along it? Your mind can create the most intricate sensations to a very high level of realism. Given the physical factors involved, how could you possibly say something like “Virgins have no idea what sex feels like” (assuming the person has experienced orgasm)?

Give your mind some credit, people.

Atheist, that’s very true.

Since my first x-rated dream proved that. It felt so real. It was amazing so real. Beyond real. You all just have to experience it to know what I mean.

Yes I have ran my fingers on the wall… felt so real too. :wink: gives her small brain a lot of credits :wiske:

I am a virgin… a pure one and still in this dream… geez. It was so real. I woke up very ahem sexually activated. Took me a while to settle down. Ha ha ha! :content:

Be warned… it is more real than you think.

Damn. :sad:

Anyways, it seems my LDs are directly influenced by anything I read on this stupid board. I was reading this one and the “mom controls my brain” thread at the same time and guess what? Last night, first attempt, then my mom came along and uh, I ended the dream before she got to me
:wink:
It didn’t feel like anything at all. I didn’t get too far, though. And it was pretty crappy low level lucid. And I wasn’t really interested. It was just some strange reason (reading this thread…) that I was reminded of it. I was supposed to find my spirit guide! I shouldn’t be here, I should be in the spirit guide thread. Sigh. Perhaps when I’m higher level it will go better. Stop calling it X-Rated dream. It’s not that bad, you know. And virgins (hint hint) probably experience dream sex as their educated guesses (and no doubt they would guess) would dictate.

P.S. Jack: Poland has to set their ideals straight. :grin:

Ahhh, erotic dreams…always my enemy in their elusiveness.

I have never had sex, never had oral sex, etc. All I have been able to do in an LD (low level) is feel someone up…and in non-LD’s, whenever I have had sex it was strangely without feeling (actually one time I think it DID have feeling…bizarro). Anyway, the point is that my brain CAN create sensations, which I have been trying to “train” it to.

And ANY sort of tactile sensation in dreaming, when you are aware of it, is absolutely mind-blowing. In fact, one of the most erotic dreams I ever had involved a girl feeling me up…wow, I know it sounds mundane, but the sensations involved there were…STAGGERING.

What I think the problem is, is that all my LD’s have been too Low Level, and thus lack control and stability. Thus, when I try to summon “hot girl a,” I end up with strange circumstances and usually an awakening or FA. I’ve been working with a “logic test” to make my dreams more High Lucidity, and thus I believe my powers will intensify and grow in strength.

Don’t ever doubt your subconscious, just give it hints and eventually things will turn out. And the non-virgins, I envy you solely for those sensations you’re having… :tongue:

Meh. It’s better that our minds are not poisoned by the low standards of waking life sex. We shall create our own standards!!!

way to go DM7 :smile: I myself have never had it in RL or in a dream, although I did try once (lol! In a DREAM) because I think it may be a while till the real thing come along my way :eh:

CharlotteDreamer love your avatar! :wink:

Jeff