The reason for wet dreams is to get rid of the old semen and bring in the new. If you masturbate regularly, there’s a good chance you’ll rarely, if ever, have a wet dream. I can’t remember how often the body usually discharges your semen if you haven’t done it yourself–something like 5 days? (I know most of you know that already, you just weren’t spelling it out very clearly for the people that didn’t.)
Anyone can have multiple orgasms–and it’s far from difficult. It’s just that men get tired much more rapidly after orgasms than women, so they don’t really care to generally.
just to let it be known. the male testicles have in them a full ten “loads” of semen. each “load” can last for about 30 days, before it is too old for use.
the reason men are mostly not able to have multiple orgasms is that upon ejaculation, it is not only semen that is ejaculated, but also a special fluid that gives the sperm energy. it could be compared to swimming in a pool of sugar water. only about ten percent of a mans “load” is infact sperm, if i remember the numbers correctly. the rest is nutrition for the sperm.
the problem with multiple orgasms lies in that a man doesn’t have to have enough of the nutrients for ten loads, and usually only has enough for one. this can be worked on, and with the proper practice, could be increased up to a quite high number. if my memory serves me, the guinness world record was 13 ejaculations/orgasms in a row.
why are we talking about semen & testicles? the person asking the question wants to know why she masturbates during dreams. Think we can get back on topic now? LOL
however to quash rumours about the reason we have wet dreams being “to get rid of excess sperm” i will post this totally offtopic post
The reason for ‘wet dreams’ is that during REM sleep there is intense activity in areas of the brain that control the autonomic nervous system. Heartbeat and breathing, for example, can be quite irregular during REM sleep. In the course of the autonomic activity of REM sleep, there is normally an activation of the erectile system of the penis and the secretory and erectile systems of the vagina. In some cases, the self-stimulatory activity of REM sleep may also lead to the an orgasm and an activation of the ejaculatory system in males.
Sperm doesn’t need to be “ejaculated” at all to remove it. Old sperm gets broken down and quite litterally is absorbed into the body. If sperm needed to be expelled just think how dangerous vasecamies(sp?) would be if it had to be released that way
Ah, yes, I was dead wrong. Apparently the theory that since sperm has a limited life span it must be gotten rid of is outdated. You are correct, Dark Matter.
However, on further investigation, it seems wet dreams have far more to do with keeping hormonal balances to relieve stress than it does the irregular processes of REM sleep–especially considering the fact that people can have nocturnal emissions without having sexual dreams. Although it should’ve been mentioned outright that the reasons for wet dreams are not fully known.
But I could be wrong about that too. Where is that quote from, so that I may investigate further?
Kimius, I’m fairly sure what I said about men becoming mentally tired far more quickly and powerfully than women is correct, and probably a huge contributing factor as to why men have multiple orgasms far less than women. But there’s always the chance that it’s not even partially correct. Do you have a link or citation for where you obtained those claims?
See… that just isn’t right (fair) at all, I hear the female orgasm is more intense than the male, and well, those numbers don’t lie… this depresses me… I want to be a woman for a few days.
The quote… i don’t know I’m full of usless general knowledge like that, i just did a brief google search about it and clicked on the first relevant site that sounded like they know health/body related matters lol.
yeah but measures can be taken to kill the period for most of the time, like those long term birth control shots that make you only have them so many times a year, or something… and then no pregnancy either.
of course it’s just now that women really get the freedom to enjoy themselves, what with a history of male suppression… so… in a way it could be fair.
Vae Victus: no, i don’t have a link. this is stuff i learned in one of the 2-3 sex ed classes i have had in my life. but you are quite right about mental tiredness. though you probably don’t know why. the answer is adrenaline. upon orgasm the body generates adrenaline, so as to achieve the best possible orgasm, from a mechanical point of view. upon ejcaulation the body shoot’s out semen at a speed of about 140 kph. no, i am not kidding you, it’s true, strange as it seems. this is not possible without adrenaline, as a man is usually relaxed during sex. this is because adrenaline has the drawback that it kills an erection.
i guess i could inform you even more on this stuff, but i am not in the mood to sit and type for the next hour or so.
so lack of adrenaline is what makes you, not shoot ?
maybe it’s just overuse but i can’t by the 140 kph which is a lot of mph somehow… I know if I were functioning at my best yeah… but I haven’t really been like that since 14-16… there’s no speed involved with me really, unless youa re talking the small speed it takes to exit, but considering that it doesn’t go very far I can’t think it has a high velocity…
hehe, this is a good discussion.
so why do we masturbate in our sleep, aren’t we supposed to be paralyzed?
for the record… men can have multiple orgasms WITHOUT ejaculating… and they’re awesome… and i’m willing to wager just as strong and even stronger than a female’s regular orgasm, we just have to practice a bit to achieve them
if i may suggest The Multi-Orgasmic Man by mantak chia. women can do that stuff too, in fact i think there is a book wrtten for you something like Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Female Sexual Energy by the same guy… he also wrote one about cultivating male sexual energy which i’m reading right now
I havn’t had a masterbation dream for probably six months I would guess (I’m 19). But it seemed like every time I would masterbate in a dream my member would be twice the size it was in real life, and also it was always infront of either my parents or in front of groups of people. Don’t know what that means, kind of strange.
ive had dreams likte that a couple of times, this night actually
the first one for a very long time…hmm i guess perhapps i was doing it in my sleep, because all the times ive dreamt it, im always allready at the point of ejaculating…and i usually wake up after it has, and have a real ejaculation…quite annoying, the first couple of times it got sticky…
then i just learnt to quickly wake up and stop it, rush of to the toilet and be away with it
but this time i didnt wake up…i continued dreaming, and a couple of mins later i had a LD…so i guess it was kind of worth it to get sticky for a LD
I once had a sex dream. It was with an Honoured Matre from Dune, and since I expected it to be out of this world like good it was. Hundredds of times netter than in real life and everey orgsam lasted for several minutes, and since the dream seemed to last a couple of weeks I did it over and over again. I really became addicted to it, imagine how terrible for me it was to wake up! I became seriously in love with that DC and she always made me feel Great!
BTW: I’m actually a guy I just chose to make it look like I was a girl because i call myself LanaLang…
BTWBTW: Did you know that a pigs orgasm lasts for thirty minutes?
BTWBTWBTW: I envy that pig!!!
BTWBTWBTWBTW: I really want to be a pig in one of my dreams!!!
often when i have a dream about sex or masturbation, i will start to climax and then wake up while it’s happening. before i practiced LDing, though, i could never get to the point of orgasm in a dream. so so close, but never THERE. so i’m wondering what it will be like in the future when i become better at LDing. woohoo
The last time I had a sex dream I stoped on purpose before ejaculating, I would hate to have to get up during the night and having to clean up the mess…
mystery just wear special underware, or latex sheets, hehe…
oh and holy, at least you don’t have to menstruate every month, i think that would be horrible, and uncomfortable, oh and you don’t have to you know get “it” streched from having a baby…
I’m full of usless general knowledge like that, i just did a brief google search about it and clicked on the first relevant site that sounded like they know health/body related matters lol.
I became seriously in love with that DC and she always made me feel Great!