Sounds a lot like something my parents used to say when I wanted something that they did not want me to have. “I was going to let you have______ but now that you misbehaved I changed my mind” Now even as a child I knew my parents had no intention of giving it to me.
OK that was off topic but then this hole page is off topic.
Dreamscaper you have stated a lot of things as fact yet you failed to provide any evidence to support your conclusions.
However, even if you did “prove” your “theories” that would still be totally irrelevant. This thread is about should gay marriage be legal. Even if all your “theories” were proved correct that still would not be an effective argument against gay marriage. We are supposed to live in a free and open society where all groups have the same right and privileges as others. Put simply every one is supposed to be treated equal. Permitting gay marriage would not be detrimental to society any more then interracial marriage(many of your arguments at one time were used against that). The bottom line it that allowing gay marriage would not in anyway effect the health or welfare of society. Therefore in my opinion there is no reason why it should be illegal.
To shamelessly repeat a line from a TV show “Government has no business defining love and they certainly should not ill define it."
If you have any reason why gay people should not be allowed to get married if they want (other than because you hate them) say so. Cause everything else you said is just spin.